The Most Common Slang Words of 2023 That My Kids Are Using, But It’s Cheugy When I Do
When I Was a Kid
Just like we did when we were teenagers, the teens of today have their own words they’ve created.
My teens always cringe when I use one of these words. I was using “sus” for a while, and it drove them nuts.
Back in the day, we used other cringy words like, “stoked,” “gnarly,” and “rad.”
Now, thanks to Preply.com we know the most common slang words used by teens this year. If you’re living with one of these kids, you probably won’t be shocked or surprised at what they are.
The Most-Used Words
The most-used word, according to the site’s survey, is indeed my aforementioned favorite, “sus.” Short for and synonymous with “suspicious,” the definition is “Giving the impression that something is questionable or dishonest.”
Second place goes to “bet.” It’s not about wagering. Instead, it means “I agree,” but can be used as “good news” and “sure.”
“Yeet” is number three and means to “throw violently.” “He yeeted that sus nugget off his plate.”
Fourth place went to “salty,” as in “upset,” for example, “Mom is salty my room’s a mess.”
“Cap” rounded out the top five. It’s another word for a lie, meaning “no cap.”
Other entries included “bussin,” which means “really good,” and “bougie,” which means “fancy.”
The survey also found that 50% of parents try to keep up with modern slang to keep their teens safe. I never thought of that, I just use them to try and relate which 60% of parents do. As I mentioned, they’re not amused by it.
Many parents admit that they Google a slang term rather than ask what it means. 70% of Moms and Dads say they already know “salty,” “bougie” and “sus.”
Only 9% know that “cheugy” means uncool. Like it’s cheugy that you don’t know what cheugy means. 4% know what “DTB” means. DT is “don’t trust,” and the B stands for boys or b*tch.
Is Your Teen 'Road Ready?'
Passengers
In a study evaluated by the NHTSA, teen drivers were two-and-a-half times more likely to engage in risky behaviors when driving with just one teenage peer vs driving alone. From there the risk of a fatal crash goes up in direct relation to the number of teenagers in the car. This is the reason each state restricts the number and type of passengers a beginner driver is allowed to carry; stick to these laws no matter how long -or short – the trip is. Set driving ground rules with your teen and explain the consequences for breaking them; put it in writing and enforce it!Buckle up – it’s not only the law in every state, it’s lifesaving advice.
51% of the teen drivers who died in 2021 were unbuckled. Sadly, passengers follow their example; when a teen driver involved in a fatal accident wasn’t wearing a seatbelt, nine out of ten passengers who died were also unbuckled. This lesson has to start when they are very young; teach your kids to buckle up as soon as they graduate from a car seat. The NHTSA lists distraction, comfort and a false sense of safety as the main reasons kids ride beltless. A child distracted by games or snacking may just forget to buckle, so keep reminding them. Uncomfortable seatbelts may be an indication your child isn’t ready to leave their booster seat. Many kids – and adults – think they don’t need a belt on a short trip or at reduced speeds, but in fact, most fatal crashes happen within 25 miles of home and at speeds of less than 40 miles per hour. Their most important advice, buckle up yourself. When parents and caregivers fail to fasten their belt, children are less likely to wear theirs.Drowsy Driving
Studying, part-time jobs and extracurricular activities can impact your kid’s bedtime routine. A sleep deprived teen driver is an impaired teen driver. Drowsiness affects alertness, reaction time and judgement. Drivers 17-23 years old, those who sleep less than six hours a night, who drive on rural roads or who drive after midnight are at the highest risk of an accident. Make sure your teen gets a good night’s sleep, monitor their driving after dark and pay attention to your state’s restrictions for nighttime driving.Distracted Driving
An inexperienced teen can’t afford any distractions. According to the NHTSA, dialing a phone increases a teen’s risk of crashing by six! Texting increases the risk 23 times over. It’s not just smart devices causing distractions. Loud music can prevent a driver from hearing an approaching emergency vehicle or another driver’s warning horn. A teen late for school may try to make up time by fixing their hair, downing a breakfast sandwich or cup of coffee or applying lipstick while driving. Anything that takes their focus off the road – and that includes hands-free devices – reduces their ability to react to a sudden stop in front of them, a pothole or a patch of ice. Teach by example, make driving your number one priority when behind the wheel.Hands on the Wheel
A tire blows out, a car drifts into their lane, a child or pet runs in front of the car or they hit black ice. All of these road emergencies require quick reactions and total control of the vehicle. Today driving instructors recommend holding the steering wheel at the 9-o-clock and 3-o-clock position — opposite sides of the wheel halfway up. This hand position allows good control over the wheel while reducing the risk of injury from the airbag in a crash. A bonus to proper placement, hands that are on the wheel aren’t texting, eating or applying make-up!Shoes Make a Difference
Believe it or not footwear is the cause of around 16,000 crashes each year! (NHTSA) Drivers of all ages should be aware of ‘pedal error’ – a high heel caught under the brake or accelerator, a slippery dress shoe sole sliding off the clutch or a chunky wedge catching both pedals at once. Flip Flops are hard to keep on while walking, image one falling off between the pedals at 60 miles per hour? Go shoeless? Sweaty feet can slide off as well and, if you are involved in an accident, shoes protect your feet from glass and debris when you get out to inspect the damage. Thin soled shoes are the best choice for driving, keep a pair in the car to slip on before starting up.Keep your hands on the wheel and eyes on the road - your kids are watching you.
Driving this lesson home, the best thing you can do as a parent is to be a good role model. Set an example for them and practice safe driving by wearing that seat belt, putting down the phone, being courteous to other drivers and obeying all the laws.
