Pregnant Woman Learns Husband is Sleeping with Best Friend
My heart just drops for this mother. A woman who’s six months pregnant says she’s devastated after learning her husband has been having an affair with her best friend for the past four months.
The unidentified woman has revealed her story on Reddit, saying she was turning off the alarm on her husband’s phone when she made the horrifying discovery. “I saw a text from my friend on his screen that said, ‘I’m assuming since there hasn’t been an angry pregnant lady on my doorstep, you haven’t told her about us yet?’” the woman writes. “Time froze at that moment. I took his phone and walked away and just read their conversations. For four months this man has been ****ing my best friend. For four months these people have been lying to my face.”
She says the timing of the affair was especially inappropriate because it started just two months after she became pregnant with their third child – and about a month after she learned her father was dying of colon cancer. Although the woman says she hasn’t confronted either cheater yet, she tells Reddit users she plans on ending her friendship and leaving her husband. “I’m going to lose my family and support system in one blow.”
She continued, “I’ll confront him tomorrow. Today? Today I just need this last 24hrs of peace. As for her? I won’t give her the satisfaction of a response. I don’t care why she did it. She did it and it’s done. I was always the friend who cleaned up her messes. After today I will cut her out of my life like she never mattered at all.”
She end with “This has to be the hardest storm I’ll ever weather, but damn it I know it’ll sail through it. If not for me, for my children.”
Plus One Protocol: 5 Behaviors You Should Avoid As A Plus One
Ditch the Shy Act: Embrace Socializing
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Just because you’re tagging along with someone you know doesn’t mean you should stick to them like glue and avoid talking to anyone else. The non-socializing plus one is the epitome of wallflower behavior. They often stand or sit on the sidelines, observing the interactions but rarely engaging in conversations. As a plus one, you want to avoid being glued to your phone or standing on the outskirts of the party. Try joining in conversations and mingling with guests.
Dress Code Rebellion
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Dismissing the dress code as a plus one is a dangerous game to play. Whether it’s showing up to a formal affair in casual attire or wearing something outrageously attention-grabbing that steals the spotlight from the host or guest of honor, you don’t want to do this. If you’re unsure of what the dress code is, you should ask the person who invited you.
Party Hard, But Not Too Hard
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When you’re someone’s plus one, it’s crucial to keep an eye on your drink intake. Being the drunk plus one is a big no-no. So, remember to pace yourself and avoid going overboard on the alcohol. Nobody wants to deal with a sloppy mess at the event. Stay in control, have a good time, and keep the party vibe going without crossing the line into a drunken disaster zone.
No Rudeness Allowed
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Show good manners, steer clear of offensive jokes, and treat others with respect as a plus one. Remember, the event is a time to connect and have fun, so be kind and considerate to everyone involved. Steering clear of topics like politics and religion. You probably don’t know most of the people there, so you shouldn’t make assumptions about their beliefs. Also – and this should go without saying, but we’ll say it — avoid publicly critiquing the person you came with.
Negative Nancy Alert
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Don’t fall into the trap of constantly complaining, picking apart every detail from food to music to ambiance. Instead, focus on enjoying the event and making the most of the experience. A positive attitude goes a long way in creating a fun and memorable time for everyone involved. Don’t be a “Debbie Downer” or a “Bob Bummer.”
