Memories of a Silver Tree and Colorful Spinning Wheel
In the heart of the holiday season, Christmas memories of my parents shine bright. Our childhood home sparkled with a special silver Christmas tree, a magical centerpiece adorned with a…
circa 1955: A boy and his sister decorate a Christmas tree with lots of tinsel.
(Photo by Orlando /Three Lions/Getty Images)But the real magic was the spinning wheel at the tree's base. Small yet grand in impact, it twirled, painting the room with a radiant glow. Reds, blues, greens, and golds danced in harmony, mirroring festive melodies. The spirit of the season came alive in our living room.
Holiday music added to the enchantment. Classic carols and cheerful melodies became the backdrop to our gatherings. Each note carried the joy of holidays past, creating a tapestry of memories for a lifetime.
Reflecting on those moments, I realize the silver tree wasn't just a decoration. It was a vessel for lasting memories, representing the magic of the season. Its twinkling lights and spinning wheel were conduits of joy that brought our family together.
Though the silver tree is gone, its memories endure in my holiday nostalgia. As I create new traditions, I carry the glow of that magical tree and timeless melodies. It's a reminder that, no matter where life takes us, the spirit of the season is etched in heartwarming moments shared with loved ones.
And so, as the holiday season unfolds each year, I find peace in the warmth of those cherished memories. The silver tree may no longer stand in our living room, but its spirit lives on in the laughter, the joy, and the timeless tunes that continue to echo through the years. It's a legacy of love, a testament to the magic of the holidays and the precious bonds that make this season truly special.
Holiday Dating Do’s and Don’ts
A new relationship can be exciting. The possibilities are all ahead, and things seem perfect, at least for a while. This is the "honeymoon phase," where you don't see (or you ignore) all the little annoying things in your partner and feel totally infatuated. If you're lucky, that feeling lasts forever. Well, the holidays can be a difficult time for dating. So, what are some holiday dating do's and don'ts?
It really seems like people are more apt to want to get into a relationship during the holidays. It makes sense. Much of America gets cold during the holiday months, and cuddling with a significant other while watching movies and drinking hot cocoa or an adult beverage is a fun holiday activity. Also, the holidays are the time of year when you're most likely to see family and friends. If they're all hooked up with significant others, you might feel pressure to find someone, too.
Before we get into the light-hearted do's and don'ts, one serious don't is hooking up with the wrong person just to feel like you have someone during the holidays. Sure, you might feel lonely at the annual family gathering if everyone else has a date, but it's not worth dating someone who is totally wrong for you just to have arm candy at Christmas dinner. This really holds true all year, as often times, events pop up where you might think, "Hey, I would love a date for this." But, if it's the wrong person, just don't do it. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache in the end.
So, what are some holiday dating do's and don'ts? Read on for a festive list. These are especially true if you're in a new relationships, because the holidays can be brutal for new love. But, the holidays can also be beautiful for a budding romance. Reach out to us with your holiday dating stories, too.
Don't Move Too Fast
If you're started dating someone you really like, it might be temping to bring them to Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner. But, that could also freak them out. I remember going out with someone just once and getting invited to a holiday dinner. It made me a little uncomfortable, because even if I liked that person, it seemed like a big jump. So, if you do want to invite that new love to a holiday family event, make sure to talk it over with them and give them the option to say no.
This young couple is totally surprised by moving too fast.
Don't Go Crazy on Gifts If You're in a New Relationship
If you're in a newer relationship, resist the temptation to buy your new love too much for Christmas. "Oh, he's a Packers fan! I'm going to buy all the Packers gear I can find!" Just don't do it. It's okay to give gifts, but keep it small if you haven't been together long, or you might look insane.
This young woman is spending too much on her new love.
Do Give Small, Meaningful Gifts
If you're in a new relationship, you should get something for your new partner during the holidays. But, as mentioned above, don't overdo it. A small, meaningful gift will likely be welcomed during the holidays and not scare your new love away.
This small gift is perfect for the holidays.
Don't Freak Out If You Don't See Your New Love As Much During the Holidays
Maybe you're used to seeing your new love a few times a week. What if that's just once a week, or less, during the holidays? Don't freak out or start crying or anything. The holidays are a busy time for all, and that means schedules change.
This couple is fighting over missing dates over the holidays.
Do Be on Good Behavior at Holiday Parties with Your New Love
You might get invited to some fun holiday parties or work parties by your new love, and you might want to invite them to yours. That's fine and much less pressure than a family event. But, be on good behavior. Don't try to be the life of the party or anything, as you might mortify your date. Sometimes, people like to overdo it in the early stages and try to really impress, but you really just need to be yourself when meeting new friends and chill out a bit.
This couple is enjoying themselves at a holiday party.
